I do as well. It was character-center, but also for the most part the plotting worked and was satisfying, particularly in the early seasons.

What I liked was how both Stefan and Damon think that their romantic relationships or their consuming passion for some woman (usually Elena) would save them, when in reality what redeems them both are the platonic friendships they develop with others, along with working relationships. It's Damon's relationships with Alaric, Stefan, the Sheriff, and Bonnie that in many ways redeem him, not Elena. Same with Stefan. It really gets across how no one relationship defines you nor an act. That people aren't just their isolated actions, or their isolated relationships. But the sum total of those...and it did it without being preachy. (ie. showing not telling).